Thursday, October 30, 2008
Finger latching and palm rolling
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Conversations with my boy
"Fine."
"Did anyone say anything to you about your hair?" me inquiring further
"No. Well, no one said anything to me," he replied, "but I heard two kids talking about my hair."
"Really? What did they say?"
"They said I looked like a girl! I told them I was a boy and that my hair looked GOOD!"
That's my boy!!
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Debunking Myths- washing pre-loc'd hair
I started my research on loc'ing hair, and the width and breadth of information is kinda overwhelming. I went to the experts, my sistas and brothas of Nappturality, and as usual, they school a girl real good!
Rather than try to list and discuss all of the goofiness in one post, I think I will update this topic weekly. I will start with the one I had the biggest concerns about:
1. Don't wash your hair before the loc'ing process has begun.
That just struck me as foul! I wash or rinse my son's head daily (no-pooing) and the idea of going a month or more without soap and water struck me as just WRONG!!
The experts say:
I started my locs with braids and was able to wash my hair with little to
no unraveling from day one. I wash my locs with Alberto VO5 Tea Therapy
Clarifying Shampoo, Vanilla Mint Tea and moisturizing shampoo from Bath and Body Works (clear one). Can't seem to break that pattern...my hair loves it. I also
use coconut milk with a little coconut oil (warmed by microwave) for
conditioning.if you are very active, work out a lot, swim or otherwise participate in activities that would have you washing/rinsing you hair quite often, you might want to consider starting you hair with braids, as they wouldn't unravel as easily with the frequent washings/rinsings.
about washing your hair: just wash your hair as you normally would, then put in the coils/braids/tst whatever to start the locs. as far as maintenance goes, most of the people on here will tell you to wash your hair when it needs to be washed, although you might have to wash it a little more gently than you're used to in the beginning so as to not overly manipulate the beginning loc formation. i would recommend using a diluted shampoo solution sprayed onto the scalp and directing your cleansing efforts more on the scalp--rinsing the shampoo thoroughly from your hair will cleanse the loc itself. conditioners in the early stages may be a little much for the new forming loc--i would probably stay away from creamy type conditioners until my locs have matured somewhat. i maintain my locs by palm-rolling them every two weeks after a wash and i use jojoba oil (sometimes mixed into a little clear loc gel) and a water/eo spritz. hope this info helps! hugs and peace, janel
Keep them clean and do not over twist them and you will be fine. Mother nature does the rest for you.
What is your current hair regimen? I shampoo about every 7-10 days. I always make sure to separate each loc (to prevent hugging) while they're still wet. Other than a dab of light oil after shampooing, I don't apply any products to my locs in between shampooing. When showering, I pull my hair up but leave it unprotected so that the steam can penetrate it. About every two months or so, I latch my roots for maintenance. Sometimes I like to twist/palmroll the roots for a change of pace.
************************************************************************So, there you have it. I will wash his hair as usual. I will take the advice though to avoid conditioners. This actually makes sense to me, as the purpose of the conditioner is to give slip, and I don't want slip at this stage.
Monday, October 20, 2008
Introductions
I have been natural since 2002 but I prefer to wear my hair in loose styles. I've always admired locs, especially on men and boys, but not for me . . . I like playing in my hair too much.
So, we'll be using this space to document his progress and my new found knowledge about how to start and maintain his locks.
Wish me luck, and feel free to jump in anytime with advice and feedback!